{"id":660,"date":"2025-10-06T00:28:58","date_gmt":"2025-10-06T00:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blackmanwrites.com\/?p=660"},"modified":"2025-10-06T00:28:58","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T00:28:58","slug":"happy-ninety-ninth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blackmanwrites.com\/?p=660","title":{"rendered":"Happy Ninety-Ninth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"380\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?resize=640%2C380&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-661\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?resize=1024%2C608&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?resize=300%2C178&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?resize=768%2C456&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?resize=1360%2C808&amp;ssl=1 1360w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?w=1418&amp;ssl=1 1418w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blackmanwrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Dad.png?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>No paper trail.<br>No midwife\u2019s mark.<br>No certificate to prove the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just Marlboro County fields,<br>tobacco barns breathing their smoke,<br>and the cry of the first of twelve \u2014<br>a Black child under Jim Crow skies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If he went to school, it was brief.<br>The rows of cotton and tobacco called louder.<br>He couldn\u2019t read.<br>But he could live.<br>He could hustle.<br>And he would always say,<br><em>\u201cI\u2019d rather have common sense than book sense.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He joined the tide of the Great Migration.<br>South to North.<br>Carolina to Chicago.<br>He carried only work ethic and will,<br>and turned them into a life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He built a Black middle-class life.<br>He raised his children in a place<br>where they could thrive.<br>He stood tall enough<br>that no white man dared call him <em>boy.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ninety years on earth.<br>Nine on the Ancestral Plain.<br>I see him still \u2014<br>riding his mower,<br>cutting grass,<br>smiling,<br>because that rhythm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and because tending <em>his <\/em>land<br>was his peace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It brought him joy. Black joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish he could read these words.<br>But my mother and sister are with him now,<br>reading aloud on the other side.<br>So he knows.<br>So he hears.<br>So he feels it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His story lives on.<br>Through me.<br>Through us.<br>Through these words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy 99th, Dad.<br>Your life is our lesson.<br>Your journey, our inheritance.<br>Your name carried in love \u2014<br>from here,<br>to the Ancestral Plain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No paper trail.No midwife\u2019s mark.No certificate to prove the day. 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