{"id":739,"date":"2026-03-12T17:25:27","date_gmt":"2026-03-12T17:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blackmanwrites.com\/?p=739"},"modified":"2026-03-16T19:04:38","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T19:04:38","slug":"this-is-a-black-ass-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blackmanwrites.com\/?p=739","title":{"rendered":"This Is a Black Ass Conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The fast is over.
But the boycott ain\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pastor Jamal Bryant may be a very good man, an activist, a civil rights leader, a man of faith who believes he is doing the work God placed in front of him. I\u2019m not here to question that man\u2019s faith or his intentions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I do have one question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What did we<\/strong> get that made him decide the Target boycott was over?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Negro please.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bryant said something that made me almost cuss out loud:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe are effectively, today, closing this chapter because we have other fights that we’ve got to see.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What we<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did we<\/strong> get reparations from Target for the harm they caused by bending the knee to political pressure against DEI?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did the Black vendors who had their products quietly removed from Target shelves get restored contracts?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did those businesses get compensation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Target Fast pledge gathered more than 300,000 signatures<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many of those 300,000 people signed a treaty with Target?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where are the transcripts of the meeting?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where did the $2 million pledged to Black-owned businesses<\/strong> go?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because from where many of us are sitting, this chapter didn\u2019t close.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It just got closed for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that raises another question Black people have been wrestling with for generations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who exactly gets to speak for us?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No other community in America operates like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Asian community doesn\u2019t appoint a single leader to represent hundreds of millions of people across dozens of cultures and nationalities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Latino community doesn\u2019t have a national spokesperson that everyone must follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jewish Americans don\u2019t have one pastor, one activist, or one politician who suddenly gets to decide when a collective fight begins or ends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But somehow Black America keeps finding itself in this position.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We elevate leaders.
Sometimes very powerful leaders.
Sometimes brilliant ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. King.
Malcolm X.
Fannie Lou Hamer.
Ella Baker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But even during the civil rights movement there were disagreements about who spoke for whom and what direction the movement should take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And here\u2019s another truth people forget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. King did not die universally loved by Black America.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

By the time he was assassinated in 1968, many Black activists thought he had moved too slowly. Others believed he had become too radical once he began speaking against the Vietnam War and organizing the Poor People\u2019s Campaign. Some believed his strategy of nonviolence had reached its limit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leadership in our community has never been unanimous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There has always been debate.
Always disagreement.
Always tension about who speaks and who decides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the danger in this system is something our history has already taught us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes white society gets to choose the leader it prefers to deal with<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The reasonable one.
The negotiator.
The person willing to say the tension is over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meanwhile the people who actually started the movement are still standing outside saying,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHold up\u2026 we ain\u2019t finished yet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s where the divide begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina Turner made it plain. She said she isn\u2019t going back until Target apologizes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She even gave it the church response:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAs for me and my house, we will not be going back to Target.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meanwhile the USA Today<\/strong> headline said it all:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Target boycott ends with no concessions to DEI rollbacks.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No concessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

None.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pastor Bryant said he was satisfied that Target remains committed to diversity, equity and inclusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But others standing in the middle of this fight see something very different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nekima Levy Armstrong, founder of the Racial Justice Network, said it directly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHow can you call off a boycott focused on diversity, equity and inclusion and have no results to show for it? That is a slap in the face for the people.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t stop there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBut who’s standing here? The people who actually called the boycott. The people who were actually willing to hold this company accountable and are not willing to compromise with Target Corporation until they do the right thing.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now here\u2019s where the history lesson comes in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pastor Bryant may have fallen into the trap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And I can\u2019t say that with certainty because I don\u2019t know the full story of that man\u2019s life or work. But I do know the trap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s one of the oldest political strategies ever used against Black people in America.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Divide and conquer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Slaveholders understood something very clearly. If the enslaved people ever moved together as one body, the system would collapse overnight. So they built an entire social structure around division.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

House versus field.
Trusted versus suspect.
Preacher versus rebel.
Leader versus masses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep the people separated and the revolt never happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Malcolm X explained it better than anybody in 1963 when he talked about the house Negro and the field Negro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The house Negro loved the master more than the master loved himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When the master got sick, the house Negro said,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat\u2019s the matter boss, we sick?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When the master\u2019s house caught fire, the house Negro would run to put the fire out faster than the master himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the field Negro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Malcolm said when the master\u2019s house caught fire, the field Negro prayed for a wind to come along and fan the flames.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now I\u2019m not going to call Pastor Bryant a house Negro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t go that far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I will say this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Target\u2019s house was on fire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Profits down.
Foot traffic down.
Black people \u2014 and plenty of others \u2014 refusing to shop there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And just when the pressure started working\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

someone walked in and said the fire was productive<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Malcolm also warned about something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If someone holds a gun on a white man and forces him to put his arm around you, that isn\u2019t brotherhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s hypocrisy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Real brotherhood only happens when the arm goes around you willingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That lesson should sound familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When George Floyd <\/strong>was murdered, corporate America rushed to put its collective arm around Black people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Companies issued statements.
CEOs took knees.
Billions in DEI promises appeared overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But many of us knew something then that is being proven now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That arm wasn\u2019t placed around us voluntarily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The entire world was watching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now that the cameras have moved on, many of those same corporations are quietly removing that arm and pretending it was never there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I will never disrespect Pastor Bryant. He made the decision he believed was right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the question still hangs in the air.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who gets to decide when the fight is over?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One pastor?
One meeting?
One press release?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or the people who started the boycott in the first place?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because if this is truly a Black conversation, then every Black household gets to make its own decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And mine is already made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For me and my house, we will never go back to Target.<\/strong> \u270a\ud83c\udffe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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